top of page

Business Article

The behind the scenes details, from the content creators you love to follow.

OnlyFans and Owning Your Sexuality: A Sex Therapist’s Perspective

Featuring: DR. Alix Agar

OnlyFansInsider

Sharing the stories of content creators on OF

Welcome to Only Fans Insider, the premier digital magazine dedicated to showcasing the creators, agencies, and industry professionals shaping the Only Fans community. Our platform is designed to highlight the unique journeys, insights, and expertise of those who make the creator economy thrive. We believe every creator has a story worth telling. That’s why we feature content creators through exclusive interviews and industry spotlights, giving them a platform to share their experiences, successes, and challenges. By bringing their voices to the forefront, we aim to celebrate the talent, dedication, and creativity that drive this space forward. Love what you just read? The best way to support your favorite creator is by sharing their story! With just one click, you can help spread the word, introduce them to new audiences, and show your appreciation for their work. Every share helps creators grow, connect with new fans, and continue doing what they love. Join us in amplifying the voices of Only Fans creators. Like, share, and celebrate their stories today!

Casual Wear
Square Logo

Business Coaching & Consulting

Welcome To Sex Therapy

Featuring: DR. Alix Agar

Sex Therapist at Big Sister Therapy

IG: @dralixagar

1491

Jun 23, 2025

16 X 9 Thumbnail.jpg

16 X 9 Thumbnail.jpg

MEN'S GROOMING PRODUCTS

Dumpkin Spice Adult Flushable Wipes

DUDE Wipes

Hey there! Welcome to Only Fans Insider! We’re excited to have you here. For our readers who might not know you yet, can you tell us a little about yourself and the business you’ve built in the OnlyFans world?

Hi! My name is Dr. Alix Agar. I am a licensed marriage and family therapist and certified sex therapist based in California, specializing in sexual health and wellness. I have a private practice in Los Angeles, where I assist couples and individuals facing various sexual challenges, helping them overcome barriers to satisfaction and achieve their full sexual potential. My therapeutic approach centers on the belief that everyone deserves to experience full sexual satisfaction, embracing sexual expression, health, and well-being, regardless of age, gender, physical limitations, or sexual orientation.

Was there a lightbulb moment that made you realize this was the direction you wanted to go in?

I became a sex therapist because quite frankly there were just not enough people talking about it! I noticed early on that sex was a topic people avoided, even in places where openness was encouraged. I wanted to create those spaces where silence was replaced with dialogue, shame was replaced with curiosity, and fear was replaced with understanding.
Sex therapy is so much more than helping people resolve specific problems in the bedroom (though that’s important too). It’s about empowering individuals and couples to understand their needs, communicate openly, and explore new possibilities for connection. It’s about undoing years of societal messages that taught them to hide or ignore parts of themselves. It’s about saying, “Your sexual well-being matters. It’s worth talking about, and it’s worth prioritizing.”
I became a sex therapist to turn up the volume on conversations too often drowned out by stigma. I do this work because I believe in the right to pleasure, connection, and understanding. And I will continue to do it because every story I hear reminds me of the power of simply allowing people to be their pure authentic sexual selves.

Photographer: Sean Kara

16 X 9 Thumbnail.jpg

COMFORT CREAM DEODORANT FOR MEN

Anti-Chafing Sweat Defense, Odor Control, Aluminum-Free Mens Deodorant & Hygiene

HAPPY NUTS

16 X 9 Thumbnail.jpg

Apparel & Merch Fulfillment

Our marketplace with fresh, dirty listings and real sellers awaits.

dirtyknickers.com

What makes you passionate about the work you do in the OnlyFans world?

What excites me most about being a sex therapist is witnessing the spark of self-discovery in my clients. It’s about helping people strip away layers of shame, reconnect with their desires, and realize they’re not broken but beautifully whole. I believe in empowering all humans to embrace their full sexual selves with confidence, curiosity, and compassion. We need to cultivate authenticity, foster deeper connections, and celebrate the beauty of living a fully expressed and empowered sexual life. I love that OnlyFans allows for and promotes these beliefs on their platform.

What’s a fun or surprising fact about your business that most people wouldn’t know?

Los Angeles is often seen as a hub of sexual abundance, fueled by its glamorous reputation and media portrayals of carefree, passionate lifestyles. But as a sex therapist, I’ve observed a much different reality. Many people in LA aren’t having as much sex as the stereotype suggests, and the reasons are deeply rooted in the city’s unique culture and pressures. Factors like the pressure to perform, struggles with connection and burnout culture are getting in the way of our sex lives.

Photo Credit: Sean Kara

Where do you think the OnlyFans business landscape is heading in the next few years?

OnlyFans has emerged as a unique platform that empowers content creators to take ownership of their sexuality and how they express it. From a sex therapist's perspective, this autonomy is profoundly significant. By allowing individuals to curate and share their content on their own terms, OnlyFans challenges the societal stigmas that often surround sex work and sexuality in general. In my opinion the business model landscape will continue to widen and grow.

Thank you so much for taking the time to sit down with us today! Before we let you go, where can people learn more about your business and follow your journey?

You can find me on social media @dralixagar, and I will be speaking at the upcoming STIMULATE conference in Nashville in August. I will be presenting on marketing strategies for sex toys, aimed at heterosexual couples, a historically underserved population.

Square Logo
16 X 9 Thumbnail.jpg

Featuring: DR. Alix Agar

Sex Therapist at Big Sister Therapy

IG: @dralixagar

"It's just sex"

Comment

Share

Subscribe

Protein Products

Natural Male Enhancement

Be Ready For Any Spontaneous Moment

TUPI TEA

Protein Products

STREAMING TOYS

Vibrating Pelvic Wand

Intimate Rose

Protein Products

ADULT TOYS

Rechargeable Wireless Bullet

Generic

Protein Products

LIVE STREAM ACCESSORY

Full Of Excitement

Laphwing

More Business Articles

Advertising & Sponsorship Agencies

Naughtyads - Official directory sponsor of Sxhibition

Featuring: Naughty Ads

We're Naughtyads - Australia's Naughtiest Advertising Directory
16 X 9 Thumbnail.jpg

SPECIAL INTERVIEW

THE STIGMA ISN’T GONE. BUT SOMETHING JUST CHANGED.

Featuring: Jupiter Jetson, Marc Ellis and Maxine Doogan

JJ: I’m Jupiter Jetson, porn actress and brothel worker of eight years at Sheri’s Ranch until my abrupt termination in early February, when I was fired 24 hours after the corporate office received notice of voluntary recognition of the union I had helped organize in the face of incredibly exploitive new contracts. These contracts claimed full ownership of our power of attorney, our name/image/likeness, and any intellectual property using that name- past, present, and in perpetuity. After the Communications Workers of America (Local 9413) brought us in I realized just how much all sex workers could benefit from organizing. ME: My name is Marc Ellis. I’m the president of CWA Local 9413. The reason I’m involved and passionate about this is that I believe all legal work should be treated with dignity. Because of this our local was more than willing to help organize UBW ____ Not present for the interview: Maxine Doogan is an American sex worker, social justice and politics expert and advocate, documentarian, artist, author and media personality. For 30+ years, Maxine has regularly traveled across the U.S and abroad, providing erotic services, and working to protect and enhance the rights and conditions of sex workers. Maxine help found the Erotic Services Provider Union (ESPU), a labor rights approach sex worker rights group, the ESPLER Project which led a historic federal constitutional challenge to the anti-prostitution law in California, and Community United For Safety and Protection (CUSP), an Alaska based group of current and former sex workers, sex trafficking victims and allies, working towards the safety and protection for all in Alaska’s sex trade which also has a legal challenge to the state anti-prostitution law.
16 X 9 Thumbnail.jpg

E-commerce & Product Development

Pleasure, But Make It Frenshy Kitten

Featuring: MJ Frensham

I’m MJ, and I’m the founder of Frenshy Kitten, a South Australian intimate wellness brand. Frenshy Kitten started with a pretty simple idea. I wanted to create a brand where intimate wellness and pleasure could feel beautiful, fun, welcoming and completely normal. Somewhere people could explore what feels good for them, whether they’re discovering something for the first time or already know exactly what they love. We started online with our own range of intimate wellness products, but it’s become so much more than simply selling products. One of my favourite parts of what we do is actually talking to people. We hear their stories, what they love, what they wish existed, what they’re curious about, and we learn a lot from those conversations. And our customers are incredibly varied. We have women at completely different stages of life, couples exploring together, men shopping for themselves or their partners, and people from LGBTQIA+ communities who have their own experiences of pleasure and ideas about what they want from products in this space. We’re still learning all the time, and I think that’s really important. I never want Frenshy Kitten to assume we know what people want. I’d much rather ask them and listen. That’s actually shaping a lot of what we’re doing next. We’re expanding into lingerie, with inclusive sizing being really important to us, and we’re currently creating the Frenshy Kitten Studio here in South Australia. I’m incredibly excited about the Studio because it gives us the opportunity to bring what we’ve been building online into a real space, with intimate wellness, education, events and experiences, and the chance to connect with people face to face. Ultimately, I want Frenshy Kitten to be a brand where people feel comfortable talking about pleasure, exploring it and enjoying it. We definitely don’t pretend to know everything. I think listening, learning and growing alongside our customers is probably one of the most important things we can do.
16 X 9 Thumbnail.jpg

Fan Engagement Platforms & Tools

SXhibition: Where Education, Entertainment and Intimacy Collide

Featuring: Belinda Gavin

Thank you so much for having me. I’m Belinda Gavin, the founder and director of SXhibition—Australia’s bold new intimacy, relationships, wellness and entertainment expo. I’ve worked across the adult entertainment, events and production industries for more than three decades, both in Australia and internationally. My background includes film and television, major expos, live entertainment, large-scale productions and some truly iconic events. From 2019 to 2024, I also led Sexpo Australia, which gave me an incredible understanding of what audiences, creators, exhibitors and industry professionals genuinely want from a modern event. SXhibition is the next generation of that experience. It’s louder, prouder, more inclusive and strongly focused on education, connection and reducing stigma. We bring together creators, performers, educators, health professionals, relationship experts and innovative brands in an exciting, welcoming environment. Our events combine live entertainment, seminars, workshops, product discovery, creator experiences, meet-and-greets and open conversations about intimacy, relationships, pleasure, sexual health and mental wellbeing. Features include our Main Stage, the SX ED education stage- sponsored by Stigma Health, Creator’s Lounge, Tantra Temple, Kinky Dungeon, interactive demonstrations, competitions and exclusive VIP experiences. For businesses and creators, SXhibition also provides a powerful platform to build visibility, connect directly with audiences, generate content, develop partnerships and grow within the industry. Ultimately, we’re not simply producing an expo—we’re creating a community and a movement. I want people to leave feeling entertained, informed, empowered and far more comfortable having honest conversations about intimacy, pleasure and wellbeing.
16 X 9 Thumbnail.jpg
Comments

Share Your ThoughtsBe the first to write a comment.
bottom of page